Sunday, September 18, 2011

Lesbian Admits she's "Queer by Choice"


Queer by Choice, Not by Chance: Against Being 'Born This Way'

By Lindsay Miller

Whether or not I deserve the same rights as straight people has nothing to do with whether I chose to be the way I am today


I am a queer woman planning to get married next year in a state where my marriage will not be legally recognized. It will probably not surprise you to learn that, sometimes, being gay is not easy. Coming out to your family is nervewracking, people yell slurs and threats when you hold hands on the street, and most lesbian movies are just terrible. With all those drawbacks, those of us who spend our lives with a partner of the same sex must really have no choice in the matter -- or so goes the prevailing wisdom of the gay rights movement. It's not our decision; it's genetic; we can't help to whom we're attracted. If it were up to us, wouldn't we turn our backs on all the abuse and discrimination and get nice and legally married without a second thought?

If there's one thing to be said about lesbian relationships, it's this: You always start from equal footing.

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