Saturday, June 2, 2012

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Dale O'Leary is blogging

 

Dale O'Leary is blogging.

In order to provide the fruit of my research to a wider audience, I have started a blog. I will post articles and comment on current events.

 

http://daleoleary.wordpress.com

 

 

 

 

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Same-Sex Attractions in Youth and Their Right to Informed Consent

 

Youth have the right to be provided with the accurate medical and psychological knowledge about homosexuality by pediatricians, mental health professionals, school counselors, educators and parents. Presently, well-organized attempts are under way to attempt to block youth from being given both the appropriate scientific knowledge, and informed consent about: same-sex attractions, gender identity disorder, transsexual issues, the psychological needs of a child for father and mother, and marriage.

 

http://www.hprweb.com/2012/05/same-sex-attractions-in-youth-and-their-right-to-informed-consent/


Another Outrage in California

As of today, it is legal in California to give hormone blockers to an 11 year-old boy in order to delay the onset of puberty, but it could soon be illegal for a 17 year-old with unwanted same-sex attractions to receive professional counseling, even with parental consent. This is an absolute travesty.

 

http://townhall.com/columnists/michaelbrown/2012/06/01/another_outrage_in_california


Blacks Speak Out

 

 

 

Slams Al Sharpton for endorsing “gay marriage,” says Obama’s promotion of homosexualist agenda shows he “is not a Christian”

North Carolina pastor Patrick Wooden is interviewed by a local TV reporter in Montgomery, Alabama, following AFTAH’s press conference last month condemning the Southern Poverty Law Center's leftist “hate” campaign against AFTAH and other pro-family groups.

This is the fifth and final part of our interview with Patrick Wooden [click HERE to listen], pastor of Upper Room Church of God in Christ, in Raleigh, NC. This was pre-recorded and aired Feb. 11, 2012. Wooden criticizes Rev. Al Sharpton for endorsing same-sex “marriage” [Sharpton's pro-homosexual-"marriage" statement for the "gay" lobby group Human Rights Campaign is played on air]. “Al disagrees with the God of the Bible,” says Wooden. He also chides NAACP President Ben Jealous for speaking at the annual conference of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF)– a leftist organization that supports “polyamory,” sadomasochism, radical transgenderism, and other assorted perversions. Moreover, Wooden says Rev. William Barber, President of NAACP-North Carolina, is wrong for pledging to fight against North Carolina’s pro-traditional-marriage constitutional amendment, to be voted on in May. (Jealous recalls how Barber told him to ”make sure that that [NGLTF] crowd knows that we are doing everything we can to stop that silly amendment from becoming law.”)

After AFTAH President Peter LaBarbera notes that President Barack Obama is the most pro-homosexuality president in American history, Wooden says that demonstrates that Obama “is not a Christian,” despite his public profession. In an interesting section toward the end of the interview, Wooden explains why African Americans are perhaps more opposed to homosexual perversion than whites. He also recalls how Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. thought of homosexual attraction not as an innocuous, “innate tendency,” but a culturally-acquired, unnatural problem that can and should be resolved.

HOW TO LISTEN: This is an mp3 file, supported in most operating systems by Windows Media Player, Quick Time and/or I-Tunes.  Real Player is not supported and there may be difficulty when attempting to listen with it.  Left click once on the link below to play. (Please be patient, depending upon the speed of your internet connection it may take a moment or two to load.)  OR right click the link then “save target as” to download the whole show.

2-11-12, Patrick Wooden, Part Five

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Listen to AFTAH's SPLC Press Conference

GO TO AFTAH ONLINE: http://americansfortruth.com/2012/01/23/splc-press-conference-audio-montgomery-al-january-17-2012/

HOW TO LISTEN: This link is to an audio recording of AFTAH's Jan. 17, 2012 press conference outside the headquarters of the Southern Poverty Law Center, in Montgomery, AL.  This is an mp3 file, supported in most operating systems by Windows Media Player, Quick Time and/or I-Tunes.  Real Player is not supported and there may be difficulty when attempting to listen with it.  Left click once on the link below to play. (Please be patient, depending upon the speed of your internet connection it may take a moment to load.)  OR right click the link then “save target as” to download the entire segment.

SPLC Press Conf Audio, 1-17-12



 

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Montgomery County superintendent Starr accused of sexual orientation discrimination


Maryland Community News


Published: Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Montgomery superintendent accused of sexual orientation discrimination by Jen Bondeson
Staff Writer

An advocacy group says Montgomery County schools superintendent Joshua P. Starr violated the school board’s nondiscrimination policy with comments he made in February.

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays posted a complaint against Starr on its website Thursday and submitted it to the Montgomery County Board of Education, alleging that Starr “exhibit[ed] verbal abuse, disrespectful behavior, demonstrated prejudice, slurs, illegal discrimination, and hate against PFOX and the ex-gay sexual orientation, all of which are forbidden by the Nondiscrimination Policy ACB.”

The school board is reviewing the complaint, according to schools spokesman Dana Tofig.

The organization’s complaint points to Starr’s remarks during a Feb. 7 town hall meeting at Wootton High School.

On Feb. 1, PFOX distributed a flier in some high schools that stated that there is no “gay gene” and that sexual orientation is based on “feelings and is a matter of self-affirmation and public declaration.” The fliers caused concerns from some in the school community.

During the town hall meeting, Starr said he found the fliers to be “reprehensible and deplorable.”

He explained that nonprofits are allowed to send fliers through the school system’s current policy, which allows any organization to have fliers distributed at schools four times in the school year.

“We are bound to do it,” he said. “And this group has figured out a way to use that law to spread what I find to be a really disgusting message, quite frankly ... we are also looking at ways we may be able to communicate a much more important message, that no matter what their background is, no matter what their orientation is, no matter what they don’t like, whatever it may be whoever they are they have a place in our schools and deserve to be safe.”

Those comments about PFOX were discriminatory, the organization states, as the school board’s policy is to “provide an atmosphere where differences are understood and appreciated, and where all persons are treated fairly and with respect in an environment free of discrimination and threats of violence or abuse” along with “acts of hate/violence” including sexual orientation.

Tofig said that Starr did not want to respond to the complaint at this time.

He said that Starr made it clear he disagrees with what the flier said and the organization’s point of view, but that they had the right to distribute the fliers.

Due to public response after the PFOX fliers were distributed, the school board is amending its policy on nonprofit fliers.

If the school board finalizes its recommended amendment, the fliers would no longer be allowed to be distributed to students in middle and high schools; fliers would still be allowed to be distributed in elementary schools and allowed to be set out in common areas in all schools.

The public can send comments on the school board’s proposed policy changes until May 30 at boe@mcpsmd.org.

http://www.gazette.net/article/20120522/NEWS/705229954/montgomery-superintendent-accused-of-sexual-orientation&template=gazette

 

"Gender Wholeness Conference." Watch video to learn more.

 

Dear friends of People Can Change,

 

Family, friends, supporters and clergy can now join together with Journey Into Manhood alumni and other SSA men to hear from psychotherapist David Matheson, co-creator of the life-changing Journey Into Manhood program, about the principles on which it is founded -- along with David's breakthrough work in "Gender Wholeness Theory."

 

Watch the video (see link below) to learn more. 

 

The next conference is June 16th in Los Angeles, California, which is being hosted by the LA SSA Circle of Men. On June 23rd in Salt Lake City, Utah, the workshops listed will be presented as part of an Evergreen Regional Conference.

 

Although these are not People Can Change programs, PCC is pleased to share this information with you as another great resource for those traveling this journey out of unwanted same-sex attractions, and those who love and support them.

 

Rich Wyler

Founder and Director, People Can Change

 

Center for Gender Wholeness   

Gender Wholeness Conference

Gender Wholeness Conference

For more information or to register, click here.

 

"Matheson's workshop was amazing. He goes broad and deep, sharing all he's learned from 15 years of therapeutic work with men who experience homosexual attraction.... I would recommend the workshop to anyone."

--Ty M., Texas 

 

David will be presenting extensive new material in a brand new workshop. Plus, you will receive a comprehensive workshop journal, which includes excerpts from his long-awaited book, Becoming a Whole Man. To see a full outline of his workshop, click here. 

 

 

3 workshops will be presented concurrently

Lunch will be provided

 

 

Gender Wholeness

 

Presented by David Matheson, LPC

 

Without an accurate and complete understanding of the full range of issues underlying and impacting their homosexuality, many men struggle unnecessarily for far too long. Come access 20 years of experience in this day-long workshop from one of the world's most senior experts. You will gain:

  • An individualized understanding of the full range of both your issues and your strengths based on David Matheson's new and expansive Gender Disruption and Gender Wholeness models
  • A vision of what you will be like when you have transcended your issues and further developed your strengths
  • An extensive workshop journal containing all materials presented and Chapters 6 and 7 from David's new book, Becoming a Whole Man
  • Therapists are invited and encouraged to attend this workshop. You will spend lunch with David for an open discussion.

  

For more information about

 David Matheson's workshop

 

Click Here

 

 

The Dance of Marriage

Presented by Peggy Matheson

For Wives

 

Wives of men with same-sex attraction (SSA) often feel hurt, bewildered, and even betrayed. Without a clear map for balancing their own needs with the demands of a family and a struggling husband, women may suffer unnecessarily. Peggy will share her 20 years of experience navigating these waters in this full-day workshop. In a supportive and compassionate environment, you will gain:

  • A better perspective on the dynamics of your relationship and its impact on you
  • Tools to better access and connect with your internal well of resources and power
  • More clarity, hope, and insights about yourself and your relationship with your husband
  • A written vision to help you access more of what you really want in your marriage
  • An extensive workshop journal containing all materials presented and Chapters 6 and 7 from David Matheson's new book, Becoming a Whole Man

A discount is available for wives whose husbands attend "Gender Wholeness."

 

For more information about

Peggy Matheson's workshop

 

 

CGW Growth

 

Presented by David Pruden, M.S.

For Family, Friends, and Clergy

   

Families, friends, and religious leaders of men with same-sex attraction (SSA) often find themselves bewildered and overwhelmed as they try to make sense of this challenging issue. Without a clear and accurate understanding of what their loved one or congregant is experiencing, they may be unable to provide meaningful support and often just make things worse. Come benefit from David Pruden's 18 years of experience counseling families and clergy on these perplexing issues. In this day-long workshop you will:

  • Receive a framework for understanding the biological, emotional, and developmental influences that underlie same-sex attraction and a model of how change occurs
  • Learn practical techniques for promoting a healing environment, overcoming communication barriers, and building stronger connections with SSA loved ones
  • Hear a personal story of healing and growth from an SSA individual or family member
  • Have the opportunity to gain insight, feel strengthened, and embrace new possibilities for personal growth  

Three or more family members may attend at a discounted price.

 

Clergy are invited to attend the first 2 hours of this workshop at no cost.

 

For more information about

David Pruden

 

Click Here

 

 

For the latest information about the

Conference Series, please go to our website www.cgwevents.com

 

Happy man

 

 

 

"The Gender Wholeness model covered all the bases for healing same-sex attraction."

--Robert, Texas

 

"After the workshop, I feel like I have a roadmap."

-- Robert

 

"I now have a vision for healing instead of hopelessness."

--Anonymous

 

 

 

  

Conference Locations

and Dates

 

Prices vary by city.

Lunch will be provided.

 

 

Los Angeles, CA

June 16

Hosted by the

LA SSA Circle of Men

 

Salt Lake City, UT

June 23

An Evergreen

Regional Conference

 

Jersey City, NJ

(New York City Area)

August 5

 

Idaho Falls, ID

August 25

An Evergreen

Regional Conference

 

Washington DC Area

September 22

 

Provo, UT

October 13

An Evergreen

Regional Conference

 

 

 

 

Visit our website:

  www.genderwholeness.com

 

 

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Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Tell Target to Donate to Ex-Gay Family Groups like PFOX


It is very important that you forward this alert to your friends and family members.

 


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Target donating its sales in support of gay marriage laws

May 23, 2012

Dear Friend,

Target has pledged $120,000 in cash to promote the legalization of homosexual marriage.

Target's website says it will donate 100% of T-shirt sales from customers during the month of June to Family Equality Council.

You can see Target's promise to homosexuals here (Target's actual webpage here).

Target is joining President Obama in ramming same-sex marriage down the throats of the American people.

TAKE ACTION

Send an email to Target Chairman Gregg Steinhafel. Let him know that a majority of Americans oppose same-sex marriage and are able to use their pocketbooks to voice their opposition to companies that support it.

You can also call Target's corporate office and share your personal thoughts. The number is 612-304-6073, option 6.

Send your email to Target Chairman Gregg Steinhafel now!

Sincerely,



Tim Wildmon, President
American Family Association

P.S. Follow @AFAActionAlert on Twitter.

 

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Sunday, May 20, 2012

Joshua Starr Urged to Stop His Hate Against Sexual Orientation

http://mobile.wnd.com/2012/05/were-here-were-un-queer-get-used-to-it/

WND EXCLUSIVE

We're here! We're un-queer! Get used to it!

Demand: School's 'prejudice, slurs, hate' aimed at ex-homosexuals must end

Published: 13 hours ago

by Dave Tombers

 

A complaint filed with the Montgomery County, Md., Board of Education by an advocacy group offering support for those leaving homosexuality says Supt. Joseph Starr “spewed hateful comments against former homosexuals” and needs diversity training.

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays officials told WND that Starr’s public comments to students in February, which described PFOX fliers as “reprehensible and detestable” after they were distributed in Montgomery County schools, are responsible for creating “an unsafe school environment.”

“In what could have been a positive teaching moment to demonstrate respect and appreciation of differences, fair treatment for all persons, and a safe school environment free of discrimination and abuse, Starr instead chose to exhibit verbal abuse, disrespectful behavior, demonstrated prejudice, slurs, illegal discrimination, and hate against PFOX and the ex-gay sexual orientation, all of which are forbidden by the Nondiscrimination Policy ACB,” the complaint explains.

The brochures, which encourage tolerance for former homosexuals and discourage name-calling, were distributed under the schools “flier distribution program for non-profits.”

WND reported in February on Starr’s comments, when he called PFOX brochures “really, really disgusting,” and on PFOX’s outrage that the leader of the school system has essentially “violated the school board nondiscrimination policy.”

“We call on the Montgomery County Board of Education to enforce its nondiscrimination policy and censure Starr immediately,” Regina Griggs, executive director of PFOX, told WND at the time.

“The policy mandates that schools provide ‘an atmosphere where differences are understood and appreciated, and where all persons are treated fairly and with respect in an environment free of discrimination and … abuse.’ Clearly Supt. Starr has violated the board’s policy,” she said.

District officials confirmed to WND they had received the complaint and would review it.

In a statement sent to WND, PFOX said, “Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays (PFOX) has filed a sexual orientation discrimination complaint with the Montgomery County (Maryland) Board of Education against its School Superintendent Joshua Starr.”

The group said Starr “publicly denigrated” both PFOX and former homosexuals when he labeled the message contained in the PFOX flyers as “really, really disgusting.”

The message, according to PFOX, encouraged diversity, not name-calling.

“PFOX’s fliers provided information on unwanted same-sex attractions, discouraged student name-calling and labeling, and urged tolerance for former homosexuals,” Griggs told WND.

“Starr does not respect diversity and is creating an unsafe school environment,” she said.

See the superintendent in action:

PFOX alleges that until the superintendent himself receives training on the Board of Education’s policies, the schools will be free to discriminate against ex-”gays.”

“As school superintendent, Starr’s actions make it impossible for Montgomery County public schools to provide an atmosphere where differences are understood and appreciated, or where everyone is treated fairly and with respect free of discrimination and abuse, as mandated by its Nondiscrimination Policy ACB,” said Griggs.

Griggs is asking the school board for three things:

  • Allow PFOX to teach an ex-”gay” tolerance training session to Supt. Starr and his staff;
  • Have ex-”gay” tolerance and anti-bullying brochures provided by PFOX be made freely available to students and staff in each high school’s counseling office; and
  • Allow ex-”gay” books donated by PFOX to be placed in each high school library to ensure diversity and inclusion as mandated by the Nondiscrimination Policy.

“The school superintendent is a vital role model. When the school superintendent promotes intolerance of former homosexuals and organizations that support them, students and teachers will follow his example and learn to also disrespect sexual minorities like the ex-gay community,” said Griggs.

“Superintendent Starr cannot be allowed to use his official position to display hate against any group of people because he disagrees with their sexual orientation,” she continued.

At a February school board meeting, former lesbian Grace Harley testified in front of the board just how hurtful the superintendent’s comments were to her.

“I am sad that Supt. Joshua Starr has called me and other ex-gays names like ‘deplorable’ and ‘disgusting,’” Harley testified. “What saddens me more is that you, the Board of Education, have not reprimanded Supt. Starr.

“If he had said the same things about gays, you would have fired him by now. But because he hates people like me, you support him,” she continued. “I have suffered more discrimination and intolerance as an ex-gay than I ever did when I was gay. Please stop hating us. Follow your own non-discrimination policy.”

She said, “You and the superintendent are role models for children in the Montgomery County Public Schools. If you stop hating former homosexuals, our students will not learn to hate either.”

WND also previously reported that PFOX officials met with Kevin Jennings, former assistant deputy director of the U.S. Department of Education, just a year ago.

Jennings “affirmed the right of ex-gay organizations to have equal access in the nation’s public schools and agreed that former homosexuals should not be discriminated against during outreach efforts for students with unwanted same-sex attractions.”

PFOX also reported it met with Joseph Wheeler, attorney for the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights. He agreed with a 2009 court ruling that ex-”gays” are a legally protected class.

PFOX had brought the lawsuit to ensure equality for the ex-”gay” community.

 

Thursday, May 17, 2012

School Flyer

Sexual Orientation Discrimination Against Ex-Gays

Complaint  

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays (PFOX) files this MCPS Form 270-8 complaint with the Montgomery County, Maryland Board of Education against its School Superintendent Joshua Starr and charges him with discrimination in violation of Montgomery County Public School (MCPS) Nondiscrimination Policy ACB, including sexual orientation discrimination.   

On February 1, 2012, PFOX flyers were distributed to some MCPS students.  PFOX’s flyers provided information concerning unwanted same-sex attractions, discouraged name calling and labeling, and urged tolerance for former homosexuals.  In response to the flyers and in front of a group of students, Superintendent Starr publicly denigrated PFOX and former homosexuals by calling the actions of PFOX “reprehensible and deplorable” and labeling the flyer’s sexual orientation content as “a really, really disgusting message.”  See video of Starr teaching intolerance and hate to students at http://youtu.be/KQurGgAtc48   

Clearly Superintendent Joshua Starr has violated the mandates of the Board’s Nondiscrimination Policy ACB.  In what could have been a positive teaching moment to demonstrate respect and appreciation of differences, fair treatment for all persons, and a safe school environment free of discrimination and abuse, Starr instead chose to exhibit verbal abuse, disrespectful behavior, demonstrated prejudice, slurs, illegal discrimination, and hate against PFOX and the ex-gay sexual orientation, all of which are forbidden by the Nondiscrimination Policy ACB.  

Section C of the MCPS Board of Education’s Nondiscrimination Policy ACB states that Montgomery County public schools are to provide an “atmosphere where differences are understood and appreciated, and where all persons are treated fairly and with respect in an environment free of discrimination and … abuse.”

The Nondiscrimination Policy ACB also prohibits “acts of hate,” including “verbal abuse and slurs.”

The Nondiscrimination Policy ACB further mandates that schools are to be free of incidents involving “disrespectful behavior, prejudicial action, hate” and illegal discrimination, in particular those based on sexual orientation.  

Starr’s actions demonstrate that he does not respect diversity and is creating an unsafe school environment.  As School Superintendent, Joshua Starr’s actions make it impossible for Montgomery County public schools to provide an atmosphere where differences are understood and appreciated, or where everyone is treated fairly and with respect free of discrimination and abuse, as mandated by the MCPS Nondiscrimination Policy ACB.

The School Superintendent is a vital role model for all of our students, staff, and teachers.  When the School Superintendent promotes intolerance of former homosexuals and organizations that support them, students and teachers will follow his example and learn to also disrespect sexual minorities like the ex-gay community.  Superintendent Starr cannot be allowed to use his official position to display hate against any group of people because he disagrees with their sexual orientation.  Starr’s salary is paid by all county taxpayers and they should not be forced to subsidize intolerance.  Therefore it is essential that the Board of Education grant the remedy requested below.   

Remedy Requested

The Board’s Nondiscrimination Policy mandates staff training to ensure its implementation (Section E3).  Starr’s flagrant violation of the Nondiscrimination Policy demonstrates that he is a prime candidate to receive ex-gay tolerance training and diversity education.  In accordance with the Nondiscrimination Policy, PFOX therefore requests as a remedy that:

1.    PFOX teach an ex-gay tolerance training session to School Superintendent Starr and his staff;

2.    Ex-gay tolerance and anti-bullying brochures provided by PFOX be made freely available to students and staff in each high school’s counseling office; and  

3.    Ex-gay books donated by PFOX be placed in each high school library to ensure diversity and inclusion as mandated by the Nondiscrimination Policy.  

Background Information

Last year PFOX met with Kevin Jennings, former Assistant Deputy Director of the U.S. Department of Education.  Jennings affirmed the right of ex-gay organizations to have equal access in the nation’s public schools and agreed that former homosexuals should not be discriminated against during outreach efforts for students with unwanted same-sex attractions.

The National Educators Association (NEA) Ex-Gay Educators Caucus and the American College of Pediatricians also support ex-gay equal access to schools.  

PFOX has also met with Joseph Wheeler, Attorney for the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights.  Wheeler agreed with the District of Columbia’s Superior Court (2009) ruling that ex-gays are a legally protected class.  PFOX had brought this lawsuit to ensure equality for the ex-gay community.  

According to Public Schools and Sexual Orientation Consensus Guidelines developed by the First Amendment Center, school officials are urged to include the viewpoints of all participants, including ex-gays and their supporters, in order to develop policies that promote fairness for all.  Actions by educators to exclude some views merely because they disagree with them constitute viewpoint discrimination in violation of the First Amendment.  Therefore, the ex-gay viewpoint in public schools is protected by the First Amendment and should be heard.  These guidelines were endorsed by the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN), American Association of School Administrators, and the Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development.

PFOX also attended the Federal Partners in Bullying Summit held by the Department of Education. As only 175 attendees around the country were invited, PFOX was among the leaders in the field of bullying prevention invited to convene with the federal government and other national leaders to help stop bullying.

PFOX has exhibited at the NAACP (National Association for the Advancement of Colored People) national convention and the Connecticut Conference on Multicultural Education, among others.

Ironically, Peter Sprigg of PFOX received a letter of commendation from Superintendent Starr for serving six years on the Board of Education’s Family Life and Human Development Committee.

We ask the School Board to read a newspaper editorial written by a student at Walter Johnson High School who received PFOX’s ex-gay flyer.  See  editorial at http://pfox-exgays.blogspot.com/2012/02/students-more-tolerant-than-mcps.html  She writes, “We cannot call ourselves tolerant while sealing off our schools from groups that we disagree with…we cannot make the right decisions unless we hear all sides of the story.”  Let’s learn from our students.  

Submitted by:

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays
PFOX

pfox@pfox.org

       ~ Supporting Equal Rights for the Ex-Gay Community ~